they confuze me so much

[Valiant Partisan]

be for i start i just wanted to say i mean to nothing to the woman on this site....



but girls really confuse the :/: out of me.... they say one thing but really mean some thing else and when i really want to talk and need to talk they will never talk to me or talk about what im trying to bring up........
CAN SOME ONE HELP ME TO UNDERSTAND THEM!!!!!!!!!!!!!:???:

:owl: :owl:

[Fallen One]

I really wish I could, but I don't understand people in general, what motivates them or what makes them tick, so I'm very sorry.
I feel for the place you find yourself in right now Valiant, but my best advice would be not to treat all girls as if they are the same just because you believe one girl has treated you badly. Move on from this girl, and find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated and return the feeling you have for her.
Just because this relationship didn't work out doesn't mean no relationship will, it just means that with this particular girl the time was not right and the relationship was not right.
You will both find happiness with someone else. Give yourself time, and things will get better.
I'm sorry that I couldn't explain females to you, but they are unique and like everything that lives and breathes, explaining one only explains one, not all.

[Cobweb]

I'm sorry you're feeling so bad VP, but that's a good answer Jardinn.
There is nothing wrong with the girl or you, sometimes things work out between two people and sometimes they don't. Mostly it happens that things are working OK for one of a couple and not working for the other one, and that's where the problem lies. It takes two people to start a relationship but only one to end it. The unhappy one. It isn't anyones fault really it's just a matter of not being the right time or maybe not the right person. You'll find the right one eventually, and then you'll be fine.
If you're still recovering I hope you feel better soon, if you're searching now for a loved one I hope it happens for you soon.

This post has been edited by Cobweb on November 01, 2009 10:00 pm

[Shade]

If it's only the opposite sex that confuse you Valiant you're better off than I am. Almost all the people alive confuse the *Milton Keynes* out of me. lol
Give yourself time, you'll get over this bad place in your life and move onto a better place.
In my experience people of the opposite sex never get less confusing, but the confusion becomes less important when you find the right someone to love, and you find you can almost ignore it completely when that someone loves you back.