That's good to hear Serenity. If you do it the right way then you reduce their chances of making any objections they may have stick, and perhaps preventing you from doing what you set out to do.

Lady C, I loved your piece. I can relate to so much of that, both for myself and for my daughter who is struggling with her own awakening at the moment.
It breaks my heart to watch her and know that although she can talk to me and I will be there for her no matter what, I can't actually help her with the awakening process.
She is lucky because she knows people she can talk to about this who won't think she's crazy, she has me and her brother, and thankfully she is also a member of some internet otherkin sites aimed at teens. Even so it hurts to see her confusion and her pain as she realises why she has always felt different, and places this alongside the fact that many of the other children she has been to school with have always treated her differently.
I was so worried when I saw it beginning in her. She reminded me so much of myself and I didn't want to influence her in any way. I didn't want to liken her awakening to mine and so make my truth hers at all, so I tried to be supportive and present, but not pushy or over-helpful.
Of course now I'm afraid that I could have done more, and that I let her down.

For all those who think it would be wonderful to have parents who understood you and what you were going through, you're probably right, it probably would be, but it would bring with it a whole new set of problems for both of you. She is confused, and full of questions that I have to skirt around the answers to, I don't want to accidentally make her believe something that is not true. This makes her frustrated, especially with me and what she percieves sometimes as my negative attitude toward helping her discover herself, and my obstruction to her finding her true inner self. She expresses her frustration by shouting, usually at me.
I must admit that the freedom of expression she is discovering has it's good side aswell as bad. (Not that I'd ever tell her that!)
She has taken the bullying from school mates and bottled up her emotions for years, and now we scream like Baen Sidhes when we have a disagreement. She is angry at me because I won't answer all her questions, and I am angry because she doesn't see that this is the section of road I must travel in silence. My silence is the price I pay in order to walk with her along this section of her journey and be there for her.
Sometimes having a parent, or even two, who understands, can be worse for Kin than having human parents. You can be angry because they don't understand, but forgive them because there is no way they could.
Neither my daughter nor I have that out clause, and I have the feeling that we both sometimes wish we did.
I have just read this back and realised that I am not sure how this could be useful to you Serenity, and yet I really don't have the heart to delete it.
I hope someone who reads it finds some of it of some use.

Moon.