I don't think chants and spells can make you kin either, but I can understand why some people think they can.
Sometimes you find something that just calls to you. It speaks to you in a way that nothing else ever has. It might be a chant or a mantra, it might be a poem or a song, it might even just be a painting or a piece of music. But every time you look at it something inside you stirs, just to know that it exists in the world seems to bring the Universe into sharper focus, and things begin to change.
I think for some people they experience this feeling of change, (which I believe heralds the awakening phase of kin), and assume that the change happened not just because the thing called to the kin, and woke it up, but because the thing actually caused the change they are feeling.
It is an easy mistake to make, and one that some unscrupulous creatures take advantage of in order to gain power or influence over the awakening one.
That I find completely disgusting, and I abhor it. There is no excuse for taking advantage of a person who holds you in a place of trust.
NO-ONE can change you into Kin. NO-ONE Makes you Kin of any kind.
NO-ONE can give you a spell, a chant, a potion or a bite that will make you anything you were always meant to be.
And I would also like to add here, that sex cannot do it either.
Whatever anyone tells you, or how persuasive they are, passion and/or sex will
NOT turn you.
If you are kin then eventually, either in this lifeitme or one yet to come, you will discover it.
If you are not kin, then you never will be. I know many do not want to hear that, and that these abusers can be very persuasive with their arguments in favour of turning. But they are using you. They are taking advantage of your vulnerability and your longing, and they are disgusting excuses for beings.
Some of them are human, and some of them are kin.
I can only hope that as we educate more people, and bring into the open what is possible and what is not, that these creatures will fade into the night and come to an understanding of how much they have to give if only they will stop using people and start to help instead.
Oh OK.
The little voices say it's time to stop now!!

Tip from me.............. NEVER ignore the little voices.

Lady C.