It is not unusual for a person to have as many as six guardians, of different makes and natures for different perspectives and abilities. So it doesn't mean anything bad.

No you are absolutely not abusing them or their presence. They are there to help you in whatever capacity you need in order to help you function to the best of your ability. They will be there when you need them and also sometimes when you don't.
It is for just this reason that you should call on them when you are frightened, because if knowing you have their back-up helps calm you down enough to regain control of these functions, you are back to performing at optimum potential again in no time.

They will be there even if you think you might possibly need them, at some time in the near future maybe perhaps. They will not mind, I can promise you that, because I never minded at all.

My guardian-ing was done for a lovely lady, with a beautiful spirit who is no longer corporeal. I miss knowing that she is 'in' the world, as it is a poorer place without her influence, and it was a privilege to know her.
Darkness