i don't know where to begin. i have a jealsoy side. i know its true but what can i do? my husband who i date for 7yrs. married to for a year and half. and had 2 childern one in heaven one here. up and left me 2yr.s ago for my bestfriend. kicked me and my son out of the apt. well he said my son could stay but i could not like i'm gonna leave my son there.
so yeah i got a few ghosts trailing me like a bad habbit.
i'm working on it but it doesn't help when my best friend likes to tell me how she thinks my fiance is hot and sexy how she wishs she could *darn* him and *Bunnies* like that.
and then in a game we play she always sets her characters up with his and has always gone as far as, say she yeah does give him special *flipping* attention what the *darn* is up with that *Bunnies*?
and shes married but they are swingers. so it doesn't bother her husband and my finace bless his big heart of course defends his friends guilty until proven otherwise.
but i mean come on she's done alot to make it look like she has alteriative motives.
i just wish the chick would tell the truth instead of half truth it and get around the whole damn thing.
i wish he'd just belive me atleast half way.
any adivce here?

First the moderator bit.
I have approved your post Kitty but I need to point out that the language filter has removed some of the words you have used because swearing is not allowed on the forum.
Please moderate the language you se in posts that way we can keep the forum accessible to younger Kin members. Thanks Zygo.

I don't think you sound jealous Kitty, a friend of yours has already made a move that took your husband away and this one now seems to be making a play for your fiancee.
I personally would be suspicious it sounds awful.
Your fiancee sounds to be trying to avoid her while taking into consideration that she is your best friend. It does sound like you should think about doing something about it though.
I would have told her where to go by now and possibly helped her get there with a boot in the backside.
Whatever you decide Kitty you are worth more than this. She doesn't have the right to make your life miserable and have you just keep taking it.

Zygo

I think it is flattering when your friends approve of your choices of partner, but it can be taken too far, and it would seem that your friend simply doesn't understand this.
If I were you I would talk to her and make sure she understands that you consider her behaviour innapropriate. Also I would talk to my fiance and tell him the same thing. That way he can actively discourage her.
This cannot be allowed to continue if it is making you feel uncomfortable, and it obviously is.
If she is your friend and she does love you she will not want to be responsible for making you feel like this.
If she knows and is not worried about how her behaviour is making you feel, then perhaps she is not as good a friend as you think and that might be something worth knowing.

I wish you very good luck with this, it sounds like a difficult situation. Try and be strong and stand up for what you want. If you don't who will?

I hope this makes sense and helps you at least feel better to have someone on your side.

Lady C.