You know that is exactly what the attraction is Demetry. These hunky guys are not real.
We know real guys, whose personal hygene habits are unsavoury, and who tread mud into the carpet, whose idea of romance is to let you cook them dinner, and whose most attractive feature is their back as they close the door behind them when they leave so you can get back to your book.

What on earth makes you think we would want to read about real men?
Give me a fake man anytime. They don't need cleaning up after. lol
The best kept secret in a woman's life is that she lives in fear and dread of a man reading these books, because if they did they would know exactly what a woman wants from a man and a relationship. And if they did know these things no woman's heart would be safe.
Of course there is the possibility that it might be worth it to the woman, just because then she would have her every desire fulfilled, but it hasn't happened yet, so none of us know. *Huge sigh*.